Danielle's question (second opinion?)

So as Danielle and I were visiting and I told her that I would not take the Activella that I was taking for hot flashes if I had to do it over again.  Heres the question, "Mom if you feel that way shouldn't you be telling other women that?"  Legitimate question.  I have no proof of what caused this cancer so I don't feel its fair to assume.  Looking back I was assured that the cyst was of no concern even that it was not hiding anything, I guess I would council women to get a second opinion or to get rid of anything thats there thats not supposed to be.  I wish I would have drained the cyst 18 months earlier but then again this is how Heavenly Father needed things to play out.  I have learned so much and am a much more compassionate and thoughtful per son because of what I'm going through.